It’s been two-years today since my medical oncologist; Dr. Robbins told Lisa and me that I’m “100% cancer-free”. It’s still humbling, frustrating, unbelievable and thrilling. If this sounds like a broken-record, I’m glad. Cancer survivors don’t like drama.
April of this year, we had another faith-building moment of truth. A month prior, I discovered a significant lump in my neck, just left of my Adam’s apple (laryngeal prominence). My surgeon, Dr. Steiniger immediately sent me for a full-body PET-CT scan and consultation with my oncologists. They determined that it was non-cancerous (whew!), but it was growing and needed to come-out (oh crap!). On April 9th, I had an in-office surgical procedure to remove the mass, which was apparently a disturbed lymph node (for the record, I do not recommend having your neck cut open without anesthesia). A week later, the stitches came out. Thankfully the surgeon was able to use my existing scar for the incision. Overall, my energy-level and strength continues to improve.
The past 12 months have been incredibly active and fruitful. Last October, Lisa and I were able to attend the C12′s 2011 Leadership Conference in Orlando at the Gaylord Palms. I was asked to speak at a breakout session to their national audience, about the miraculous healing that I received from stage IV cancer, which is ironic since the left side of my face is paralyzed and talking in a clear manner is a challenge.
In November, we were finally able to adopt Tristan Isaiah, just after his 5th birthday! on a Sunday in December we celebrated his adoption into our family with a special service at our church, Riverside Baptist Church followed by a catered luncheon attended by the entire church, family and special friends. Here’s a video that we created that starts with the day we met Ty through his adoption day.
On February 1st, Lisa and I celebrated our 20th anniversary. Typically, most couples seem to make a big deal out of their 25th anniversary, and they should. Two years prior, when we were facing my “terminal diagnosis” we made our 20th anniversary a goal/milestone to achieve. I planned a vow renewal ceremony and reception at the Vinoy Renaissance Resort in St. Petersburg. In early March, we had the shindig and it was attended by our immediate family and friends. The next morning Lisa and I set-sail for an 8-day Caribbean cruise!
Our three sons Chandler, Mitchell and Tristan are back in school, high school junior, 8th grade and Kindergarten!
Thankfully, business at Digital Lightbridge continues to be blessed with many new and exciting organizations to serve, brand and guide towards success. In April, Digital Lightbridge celebrated its 11th anniversary and opened a second Marketing Showroom in Tampa.
Over the past four months, we have foster-parented about a dozen different children. Some of the kids simply spend the night with us after their parents’ arrest. A few have stayed with us for a few weeks until a relative makes accommodations for them. We have had the joy of having a brother and sister twice. Presently, we have a five-month old boy that we call Jack. He’s the product of a typical scenario; unwed biological mother on drugs, multiple half-siblings that are scattered about the country, an uninvolved, abusive biological father that is frequently incarcerated. Jack is a wonderful, happy, independent little boy that is currently and thankfully unaware of his circumstances. I look forward to taking him for a walk around our neighborhood tonight.
I have also begun to understand the opportunity that I have been given to share what I’ve learned about the particular disease that I had, stage IV carcinoma ex pleomorphic adenoma (CxPA) cancer. Recently, two celebrities (rapper Adam Yauch of the Beastie Boys and journalist Barbara Callahan) died after losing their battle with salivary gland cancer. Lisa and I have been led to start a foundation called CXPA Cancer Foundation. It’s goal is to distill and provide relevant information and encouragement to cancer patients and their caregivers.
Next week, my business partners and I are launching a national magazine called TwoTen. It is a simultaneous print and digital (web & iPad) publication aimed to challenge business leaders to manage their organizations from a Christian perspective and improve their effectiveness.
Thank you to everyone who has encouraged me and my boys during this strange, horrible, wonderful and incredible journey.
Love and press on, Rich
Indeed we all rejoice in the Lord’s mercy and grace that which He has blessed you and your wonderful family, work team, and ministry!
I just read a portion of a letter that Dr. John Piper had written in January, 2006 when he heard that he had a diagnosis of prostrate cancer. After sharing the diagnosis in his letter he went on to say, “This news has, of course been good for me. The most dangerous thing in the world is the sin of self-reliance and the stupor of worldliness. The news of the cancer has a wonderful blasting effect on both. I thank God for that. The times with Christ in these days have been unnusually sweet…
God has designed this trial for my good and for your good… So I am praying, “Lord, for your great glory, don’t let me miss any of the sanctifying blessings that you have for me in this experience.”
Thank you Rich for your faithfulness, your walk, and your ever-present desire to give the Lord the glory for the ‘great things He has done’ in your life. You inspire me and so many others by your example of grace ‘under fire.’
But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Therefore, I will most gladly boast all the more about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may reside in me. 2 Corinthians 12:9
You are proving through your life and testimony God’s Word is TRUE!
Way to go Rich in your faithfulness to Christ in such traumatic circumstances… Keep up the Great work… Blessings!
Bless you and your family. You’ve always been an inspiration to me and this makes it easier for others in the world to recognize it as well. Keep well old friend.
Hallelujah!!! What an awesome praise report…and now, to see how you are weaving it all together for so much good. Such are the ways of God! What satan meant for evil – God is using for good. Blessings to you, Lis and your sweet family.