The Secret to Surviving Cancer

10 years ago today, during a minor surgical procedure (comparable to a wisdom tooth extraction), I was diagnosed with stage IVc ‘terminal’ cancer. I was given 2-3 months to live before succumbing to the disease of carcinoma ex pleomorphic adenoma (a very rare head and neck cancer). Through a brutal treatment regimen over several months (which included a radical neck dissection, surgeries, various medical procedures, weekly chemotherapy, and daily radiation) God healed my body creating a completely unexpected and medically unexplainable miracle!

Over the past decade, I’ve been asked countless times “How did you survive cancer? What was the secret? What is the one thing that made the difference?” I wholeheartedly believe, based on my real experience, that the secret to surviving cancer or any trauma, drama, suffering, or tragedy is to be at peace in every situation. As we mature in faith, we can come to understand that with God’s help we can be completely satisfied, whether in-ease or disease.

Philippians 4:11-13 says “ I’m not saying this because I’m in any need. I’ve learned to be content in whatever situation I’m in. I know how to live in poverty or prosperity. No matter what the situation, I’ve learned the secret of how to live when I’m full or when I’m hungry, when I have too much or when I have too little. I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me.”

Verse 9 of Philippians 4, gives the answer: “…God who gives this peace will be with you.” I pray that whoever is reading this, that you will seek and find this peace that is freely available to everyone.

Although a lot of “parts”, muscles, glands, nerves, and lymph nodes were surgically removed from my face, neck, and shoulder, my body is compensating and continues to heal. I am content and excited about life!

Thank you to everyone who has encouraged me and stood by me during this strange, horrible, wonderful, and incredible journey.

Love and press on, Rich & Nikki (and Clifford the Big Red Dog)

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About Richard Hayes

Richard William Hayes is the Chief Executive Officer and managing partner of Digital Lightbridge®. Hayes founded the creative digital agency in early 2001 and remains faithful to its mission of helping companies achieve their business objectives through strategic marketing solutions. Richard is responsible for managing the firm’s day-to-day business operations, as well as sales, and delivering exceptional client service. Richard has over 30 years of experience in advertising and marketing, having held executive positions with Fortune 500 companies and several major communications businesses. Past positions include Chief Operations Officer for Inteledigm Communications, a web development company; Vice President of Cortex Communications, a leading medical education firm; Senior Project Manager and Creative Director for TechData Corporation (TECD); and creative leadership positions with The Tampa Tribune (MEG) and several innovative advertising agencies. Richard is a proud graduate of LeadershipPasco and the Pasco County Citizens' Academy. Senator Mike Fasano presented Hayes and Pasco County Sheriff Chris Nocco with “Good Scouter Awards” from the Greater Tampa Bay Area Council. He was twice awarded the “Business of the Year High Impact Award” by Somebody Cares Tampa Bay. Richard has also been a two-time recipient of C12 Tampa Bay's “Member of the Year Award” and Servant Leadership Awards. He was bestowed the “Hero Award” by Big Brothers Big Sisters of Tampa Bay. Hayes co-founded and published a national Christian leadership publication called TwoTen Magazine. The publication has featured a wide variety of leaders, including Coach Tony Dungy, Heisman Trophy winner Tim Tebow, best-selling author Dave Ramsey, Dr. Ben Carson, Duck Dynasty’s Willie Robertson, Shannon Bream of Fox News, Gary LeVox of Rascal Flatts, David Green founder of Hobby Lobby, Dina Dwyer-Owens of The Dwyer Group, Ben Watson of the New Orleans Saints, and award-winning country music singer Josh Turner. Hayes is active in his community, currently serving on the Board of Directors of Feeding Pasco’s Elderly as Treasurer, New Harvest Missions International, and CXPA Cancer Foundation, and as an advisory board member for Pasco County Libraries, Marchman Technical College, Abe Brown Ministries, ICDM, Tampa Port Ministries, and a current committee member of CBMC’s Annual Tampa Bay Leadership Prayer Breakfast, Light Up The Night Tampa Bay, The Human Trafficking Foundation, and Jeepin 4 Justice. He is a member of the Westshore Alliance, Christian Chamber of Commerce of Tampa Bay, Gideons International, and The Greater Dade City Chamber of Commerce. Richard has also held leadership positions with the Magnolia Valley Fire Department, where he served for five years as a firefighter, board member, and training officer. Richard and his exquisite wife Nikki, live in Dade City (North Tampa Bay, Florida). They are the proud parents of five, way-above-average, children. The Hayes’ are child-welfare advocates and human-trafficking abolitionists.

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